Some may also find the concept of being friends with a gay man to be threatening. ![]() I have now learned to just keep my mouth shut and not invite anyone to do anything.Īny suggestions would be welcomed, but I have pretty much tried everything, including seeing a counselor.ĭEAR CURIOUS: The problem you’re having with straight men may be that they are nervous about being perceived as “gay by association” if they are friendly with you. Of course, everyone has their own opinions on what I should do - “join a meeting, a group, social activities and blah blah.” I have done all of those things, and I can’t figure out what’s wrong. I have plenty of female friends, but what I really want is a male best friend or, hell, just a male friend, period. Sometimes it gets back to me that they thought I was asking them on a date if I invited someone to go to a ballgame, for example. I want to be transparent, but when I tell them upfront, they disappear. ![]() Why do straight guys NOT want to be friends? I never hit on them, I enjoy a lot of the same pastimes like games, working on cars, etc. I’m well-educated, but there’s something I can’t figure out.
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